What You Should Do if You Suspect Your Child Is a Victim of Sexual Abuse at Daycare

Texas Child Sexual Abuse Attorney

If you suspect your child is being or has been sexually abused at daycare, taking immediate action is key. Criminal charges will likely be filed, but a Texas daycare abuse lawyer can help you file a civil claim for damages. 

What Are Some of the Signs of Sexual Abuse at Daycare?

Parents who have suspicions of sexual abuse at daycare should be alert for the following signs:

• Unusual interest in sexual matters. Often, children experiencing sexual abuse will start to act out inappropriate sexual behavior. Some children might know sexual matters well beyond what they should know.
• Infections or soreness around the genital area. If your child has a urinary tract infection, yeast infection, or signs of a sexually transmitted disease, these are clear signs that abuse could be taking place.
• Anxiety or fear about daycare. A child who is being sexually abused at daycare might fake an illness to get out of going or express anxiety or fear about being dropped at daycare. If this seems to be a recurring pattern, it could mean daycare abuse has occurred.
• Sudden changes in behavior. Young children, in particular, often start to act out when they are experiencing abuse. If your normally even-tempered child suddenly starts to show aggressive behavior, this could mean there is daycare abuse. Some children will regress instead; for example, a child who is potty trained might suddenly start wetting or soiling their pants.
• Recurring nightmares. When your child suddenly starts having bad dreams or difficulty sleeping, this might mean something is happening at daycare.

Some of these can be explained as normal childhood behavior, but parents know what is normal for their child and what is not. It’s important to trust your instincts. Talk to your child if they are old enough, but be careful not to ask questions that lead to a particular answer that is not true.

What Are Some Misconceptions About Sexual Abuse at Daycare?

Many people believe that sexual abuse usually occurs when the predator and the victim are alone, but this is not the case. Sexual abuse can occur at daycare even when there are other children or workers nearby. Pedophiles often groom their victims ahead of time, paying special attention to the child and trying to earn their trust. Often, the child feels like they are an accomplice in the crime, and if they tell anyone, they fear they will get into trouble.

Other parents worry about “stranger danger” when it comes to their children, but the truth is that more often than not, sexual abuse happens with a person of trust.

What Should You Do if You Suspect Your Child Suffered Sexual Abuse at Daycare?

Suspecting your child has experienced sexual abuse in a setting where you expected them to be safe is one of a parent’s worst nightmares. You should immediately report your concerns and any evidence you have gathered to the police as well as to the Texas Department of Family and Protective Services. You can file your report online or on the phone at any time.

How Can The Button Law Firm Help?

If your child is a daycare sexual abuse survivor, our team of experienced and compassionate daycare injury lawyers at The Button Law Firm is dedicated to seeking justice. We are ready to listen and fight for your family, help your child heal, and move forward. Our legal team at The Button Law Firm is recognized on the prestigious Texas Super Lawyers list, and we can help guide you after a traumatizing incident involving your child. We work on contingency, meaning we don’t charge you or collect any upfront fees to get started on your case. Get a free case evaluation by calling us at 214-699-4409, emailing us at [email protected], or filling out a contact form.